Wounded by Shame, Healed by Grace

Lesson 1: Neediness: The Human Condition
Lesson 2: How Family Systems Become Dysfunctional
Lesson 3: When Shame is the Name of the Game
Lesson 4: Stuck in Surviving
Lesson 5: When Shame Comes Full Circle
Lesson 6: Families Where Grace is in Place
Lesson 7: Addiction & Co-Dependency
Lesson 8: Enabling: Unhelpful Help
Lesson 9: The Wrong Fight: Erasing Shame with Behavior
Lesson 10: Exhausted by "Give Up & Try Hard" Living
Lesson 11: The Right Fight:A Blueprint for Self & Others
Lesson 12: Learning to Live Like New Creations
Worksheets on the 12 lessons
10 Characteristics of a shame based system
You will need Adobe Acrobat Reader to read the worksheet files. If you do not have it go to http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep2.html and download it. It is free.
mp3 Audio File:
Lesson 1 (Neediness)
Lesson 2 (Family Systems)
Lesson 3: part 1 (When Shame is the Name of the Game) & part 2
Lesson 4 (Stuck in Surviving)
Lesson 5 (When Shame Comes Full Circle)
Lesson 6 (Families Where Grace is in Place)
Lesson 7 (Addictions & Co-Dependency)
Lesson 8 (Enabling: Unhelpful Help)
Lesson 9 (Wrong Fight: Erasing Shame with Behavior)
Lesson 10 (Exhausted By "Give-Up & Try Hard" Living
Lesson 11 (The Right Fight: A Blueprint for Self & Others)
Lesson 12 (Learning To Live Like New Creations)
Shame Fear & Control Cycle 1
Shame Fear & Control Cycle 2
Shame Fear & Control Cycle 3
mpeg Video File:
Lavonia's Mother's Day Testimony (319,305 KB file size) (Works best if you save to your hard drive first and then watch the video. To save to your hard drive - right mouse click on the link - then click on Save Target As...)
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